Why do I bother coming home?

I have a feeling that if I had entered the faculty of Arts, he would disown me.

Life is sort of goood :)

Window open, scent of freshly cut grass. Spring or Summer in the air.... and it's sunny outside too.

My marks (except for Biol 140) are all above average (so far). Still waiting on my Chem 123 mark. Aced Physics 102 and Biol 121, and passed Math 101 (B) despite pretty much failing the course throughout the term (I suspect they scaled up... a lot).

I've been studying harder, reading my texts, and y'know... been overall positive this term. Leaving that negative friendship was probably one of the best decisions I've made all year. No distractions from this so called ex- "friend" as well... don't have to hear all her whiny bitching and cater to all her needs. heh, I'm too nice. I noticed an overall improvement in my quality of life.

Now... I have to decide my major :/ Well, my average is not steller... still a B average but Chem 123 may change that... unfortunately.

Most annoying thing. I get a notice on my door saying that my room in Fairview for this summer is ready then this afternoon I get an e-mail saying that it's still not ready! What?! Apparently the girl in the room right now applied for her summer housing late so is still in the process of moving out. WTH?! I applied early and get screwed with this. I'm still living in my winter term room, been eating out everyday since the cafeteria closed. Totally hurting my wallet and my health. fack, I want compensation for this.

Another note, I lost my U-pass yesterday... yay me. I didn't even get to use it. I ended up spending $5.00 on bus rides to and from John Oliver Secondary School for my midterm. I thought I'd need to blend in with the high schoolers but it seems they are used to having strangers entering and leaving the building. That can't be safe! Ah well, the midterm seemed easy and it went well.

Confused... once again...

or maybe I over think things :/

Please, do not do these things to me then watch me from afar... Honestly, I don't really care but it makes for a very awkward atmosphere.

Easter break and have a lot of work to do but all day today I have been very unproductive. My feet are sore and my throat is sore... a good night of dancing, singing, and yelling.

I want to beat her with a stick!

I want to beat her with a stick and tell her that THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND HER!

She is obviously not human because she cannot be reasoned with using words.

So frustrating.

She doesn't understand that she is living with other people and therefore has to share this living space. If she can't deal with it, then maybe she should leave and stop making things miserable for other people. It's not right that everyone has to tiptoe around for ONE person. It's not right.

I don't have depression but...

sometimes I wonder....

Maybe it's because I'm all hormonal and going through my teenage years full of fun times and bad time. Sometimes I feel so stressed and wonder why I do what I do and what am I getting out of it? Why do I keep needing to uphold this image others have of me? My reputation? The expectations of my parents? What is my purpose in life? Don't worry I'm not going to become some hippy who travels the world trying to find herself.

But sometimes, sometimes, I just get so stressed and I wonder why I even bother which leads me feeling sad.... depressed. Then I get suicidal thoughts. Driving into that tree seems like a good idea.... None of which are ever serious though there was this one time.... but that's another story.

Does this make me prone to future mental illnesses? Do I have chemical imbalances just waiting to happen? One day, will I just explode?

I think I know why I tend to stray away from people.... I put a gap between us. I get too sensitive sometimes, too much emotion. I don't like it. Through elementary and most of secondary school I had remained a person with few emotions. Hiding them, shielding myself.

Ah... another pointless rant. Time to study!

http://mooshinindy.com/2010/01/12/on-giving-depression-a-voice/

Drunkardness

The Rant

Like, WHAT THE FUCK?!

If you are talking about me and I happen to appear out of no where, please for the love of gawd, do not mutter under your breath "That's what happens when you talk bad about someone".

I rather make up reasons to dislike you than have an actual real reason to dislike you. Now I downright DESPISE you! Now I have to come to the realization that shitty people like you REALLY DO EXIST and it's not just me being inconsiderate and immature (though I know it was really you being the inconsiderate and immature one).

WAY TO RUIN MY EVENING/WEEKEND!

Now I'm going to hopefully be able to Skype my friend.

Events of Last Night (The main Story)

Before I begin, please don't judge me.

So last night was the first time in my 19 years minus one week and 2 days of my life getting drunk. That is not to say that it was my first time consuming alcohol. This weekend was the first weekend back from winter holidays so our floor decided to celebrate it in the form of consuming alcohol and being happy. For the most part I was happy but I guess alcohol takes a looooong time to affect me (same with Advil now that I think about it) so even though I hadn't had alcohol for 30 min I began to feel sick then went to my room to lie down. uggh, then felt more sick and ended up throwing up the brownie I had for dessert. BTW, I get the Asian Flush so people must of thought I was reaaaaally plastered but I wasn't. I usually have 5% stuff but I let a floor mate mix my drink (probably a bad idea) so, who knows what I had.

BUT, despite getting sick (which IMO wasn't that bad) last night was pretty epic though most people failed (including me). I made a rather quick recovery and basically just chilled with some floor mates for the rest of the night just to talk in the lounge. AND no hangover this morning. FTW! Even got up at 9:30 am to get breakfast and had a productive afternoon in which I did some pre-readings and finished my Bio121 assignment.

Another Lazy Christmas

Playing xbox on our new widescreen, eating, sleeping.... life has been pretty good this Christmas.

Too bad it isn't going to last for too long. Next Saturday I will be boarding a plane back to Vancouver and life will return to the normal routine of sleep deprivation and studying. bleh.

It has been great sleeping in until 11:30am and eating tons of food. I've gained 5 lbs during my 1 week at home, which is a good thing. 5 more pounds to go! I lost 10lbs during school, mostly due to my 1-2 week long illness and I'm hoping to regain it and more.

I'm supposed to be doing my Mandarin 11 homework but I'm just not motivated to do any of it but I should since I won't have time once school starts again for the new term. I have 6 courses and labs DX.... why do I keep doing this to myself? If I count my Mandarin 11 distance learning class and my CSP workshop... I pretty much have 8 courses. :'(

Whining aside,

I'm very excited to start term 2. Having experienced university life in term 1 I feel that I kind of of know what to expect in terms of studying and time management to better prepare myself for term 2. whee! And, I passed all my term 1 courses! woot woot!

I'm also learning a different input method for typing Chinese called "CangJie". The learning curve is steep but the learning outcome is full of advantages.

Advantages of Cangjie:

- Don't need to know how to pronounce word

- Faster typing speed

- help me memorize character

Disadvantages:

- very unforgiving with input errors :/

- hard to learn

On a final and more personal note:

Not so sure how to deal with her right now. I think it's kind of good how things are right now. Now that we are not on good terms with each other (her fault) she has stopped pestering me. The bad thing is that there are a lot of awkward moments. gaah, wish she would just leave me alone. Wish we weren't such close friends to begin with. More like I treated her as a friend and she just used me.... fudge, so goddamn immature and needy. Can't wait 'til next year when I won't have to see her anymore.